母乳的小孩是只小狼

当她极目乳头时,她的躯就有如蚁见到糖,蜂拥而上。

当她乐乐的哺乳时,她的手就有如 咸猪手,上下齐手。

当她不愿离开乳时,她的小心灵就有如雨天,大发雷霆。

Yvette has plenty of bad habits when I am breastfeeding her. She like to touch almost everywhere of my body. Her hand will move from my face to my belly button. It‘s hard to push her hand away. My breast is like their natural pacifier and it is very hard to wean her off.

She bites me. She will pinch at the nipple. She loves the smelly me. She never reject even I am sweaty.

Honestly sometimes I get really frustrated over her act and will be very angry with her if she keeps “hurting” me. But somehow I know, when she is touching me, she feel very secure and happy. I always see her wearing a smile when I am breastfeeding her.

Perhaps this is what we know as BONDING.

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11 thoughts on “母乳的小孩是只小狼

  1. Sighz … my son is juz the same ..
    except tht he lurves to touch and PINCH my other nipple while he suckles on the other .. and it is SOOOO painful ..

  2. Tell me aboout it! When Will first grew teeth, he bit me! Once, his bite got me into mastitis! Luckily it lasts for a short period and after some reprimands, he stopped (if not how would you think I can still BF him till now?). Will used to pinch me too! But I’d firmly told him off. It’s true that it’s a form of bonding for the baby to touch our breasts, but if it becomes uncomfortable for the mum and the tot is pinching for fun, I think we should stop the act.

  3. I used to say the very same thing “tell bb not to bite n he won’t”. But i’ve learnt to never say never. This bb just bites unintentionally eg while dropping off to sleep, and worse yet, i think i’v got thinner skin now that i’m much older n rate of skin regeneration much lower. ;( If this was my 1st bb, i’d surely hv stopped bfdg already! But now, it’s like the alternative is not great.

    Interestingly, of my 3 bf babies, this is the only one who doesn’t mind drinking cows milk. He doesn’t like cheese though. Unless it’s “dressed up” like in food or on bread with other stuff added.

  4. I think it will subject to individual babies.

    It is very hard to tell Yvette don’t bite, don’t touch & don’t pinch. No matter how angry I am, I even hold her hand and smack her hand when she pinch me. It just never bother her.

    Yvette loves soya milk rather than cow.

  5. forgot to mention, I also used another method – I would look very painful when he bit or pinch me, and gave out a cry and told him how painful it was when he did that. When my face cringed in pain, he mirrored my emotion and cried too. For my son, I supposed a mixture of hard and soft method did the work!

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